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How does knowing God’s love affect your relationships with people?

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Kids Talk About God

How does knowing God’s love affect your relationships with people?

By Carey Kinsolving

     “I’m OK, You’re OK” is the title of a former best-selling book. “I Stink, You Stink” is the reality behind many soured relationships.

    God’s love “affects me because I feel loved, and that makes me love other people,” says Rachel, nine.

    Rachel has identified the key to healthy relationships. When we know God loves us in our heads and sense his love in our hearts, we don’t try to put people in the place of God. Don’t make an idol out of any human relationship.

    Everyone needs love. Only God gives us perfect, un-conditional love all the time. Consider yourself a channel for letting God’s love flow through you, and you might be surprised at what flows back.

    “The love of God comes through your spirit and makes you want to treat other people as God would want to treat other people,” says Courtney, 10. “The love that comes from God is everlasting, everywhere and is faithful.”

    “I don’t stay mad as long,” says Stacy, 10. “It used to take days. Now, it takes about an hour to cool off. Once I got so mad at one of my friends that I didn’t talk to her for a week, and she remembers it, too.”

    Stacy, your struggle with anger reminds me of a story told by Michael Hodgin of a golfer who stormed off the course after throwing his golf bag into a lake. A few minutes later his friends thought he had cooled off when they saw him wading into the lake. He fished out the dripping bag, unzipped the side pocket, took out his car keys and flung the bag into the lake once again.

    Abiding in God’s love is the “key” to maintaining your cool under pressure, says Jared, 10: “Knowing God’s love helps you because you know that God will find a way to make things end up good. He can turn an impossible situation into a good one.”

    God’s love can transform laziness into helpfulness, says Nicole, 10: “Sometimes, I help my mom do dishes or clean the house. I help my dad by taking out the trash. Now, that would be love.”

    That’s love with feet on it, Nicole. But the real foot story belongs to Ephraim, 10: “Some-times when you play soccer, someone knocks you down. If you want to hit him back, that’s not the love of God. If you want to get him or her back, you lose your concentration, and you build up anger. If you had the love of God, you would be able to concentrate and not build up anger.”

    Anger in the form of revenge or bitterness can trip you up in soccer and in life. The Apostle Paul advocated forgiving one another “even as Christ forgave you” (Colossians 3:13).

    “The love of God is very strong, and he gives that love to you,” says Lindsay, nine. “In everything you do and everything you say, God will show you the right way to do or say it.”

    Jordon, 10, shares examples of that right way. “When some-body is being picked on, or has no friends, cheer them up. If somebody gets hurt, try to help them and see if they’re OK. If somebody finishes last in a race, tell him he did a good job because he finished. Never say anything to put someone down.”

    Think about this: Only God’s love flowing through you can transform “I Stink, You Stink” relationships into “I’m Loved, You’re Loved.”

    Memorize this truth: “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you” (John 15:12).

    Ask this question: Am I a channel for God’s love that blesses others, or am I dam that tries to hold onto every-thing for myself?

    Carey Kinsolving is a syndicated columnist, producer, author, speaker and website developer. Print free lessons from the Kids Color Me Bible and make your own book. Let an 11-year-old girl take you on a trip around the world in the Mission Explorers Streaming Video. Print Scripture verses illustrated by child artists. Receive a complimentary, weekly e-mail subscription to our Devotional Bible Lessons.

 

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    Carma Lynn Henry Westside Gazette Newspaper 545 N.W. 7th Terrace, Fort Lauderdale, Florida 33311 Office: (954) 525-1489 Fax: (954) 525-1861

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